Monthly Archives: January 2013

“Shine” by Vienna Teng

I heard this songwriter on NPR in 2003 and then bought a cd and discovered this song, which seems to often fit this road. I am not really into sharing music this way because we all have different tastes and … Continue reading

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Talking About It

It’s a curious thing that I am blogging about this.   I don’t like to talk about it.  I could never say the perp’s name and just called him “that priest”.  In therapy with a kind therapist, I always shut down … Continue reading

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Fr. Boroughs Breaches Confidentiality Again, A Lot

I don’t know what’s going on with Fr. Boroughs, but after a decade of complaining about privacy breaches, and thirteen months of trying to tell Fr. Boroughs about the problem after he arrived last January, he STILL lets it happen. … Continue reading

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What is Fair?

Yesterday I explained what I asked the College to do to address a decade of confidentiality problems after my trust had already been breached when I first tried to report the sexual abuse and that was handled poorly. In short, … Continue reading

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How the President of Holy Cross Promised Confidentiality

I want to explain how the Jesuit president of Holy Cross promised me confidentiality. I went to a regularly scheduled meeting with my Jesuit spiritual guide in January 2003 at a retreat house near Boston.   I had a three hour … Continue reading

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It Will Take Ten Years

In my first post on this blog I said I thought the vigil will last ten years — that that’s how long it will take Holy Cross to take responsibility.  I have ten years worth of stories to tell and … Continue reading

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“You Have a ‘Negative History’ with Holy Cross”

On this blog I will be coming back regularly to these words and comment on them:  “You have a ‘negative history’ with Holy Cross.”    That is what the Holy Cross administration said about me in late 2012. “You have a … Continue reading

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